keep it P. Keep it player.. player = confident, sexy and understands the game 🅿️

Reminder: It’s Ok To Start Over.

Fall is here. The air has shifted. For the first time in my life, I’m excited for fall season. There’s something about the cold breeze recently that I’ve started to appreciate. Pumpkin Spice Latte 🍂 is Back At Starbucks on Aug 22nd FYP in Ontario, Canada.

Social Cues & Headphones …. Im still shocked that people try to talk to others with headphones. Don’t.

Bars, restaurants & going out: Is “drunk muck” really needed? 🤨🧐

Are you hungry or bored ? After the bar, the common behavior in Toronto is AP (after party), go home or “drunk muck” which is going for food. In European countries stores close relatively early, like restaurants. In North America everything is relatively available. You can order anything you want by a click of a button, walk down your elevator, and pick up your uber eats. You can even ask them to put it outside your door & floor. As a NA (North American) society, are we choosing to take said freedom to be build a selfish world ? Or maybe that is just the North American way. True Self Power is when your offered something for “free” and you can confidently say no because you don’t actually need it.

Love Section: “Finding The Right Person Is not an easy bit”

Song Of The Week: White Horse by Chris Stapleton 🎵

Maybe what really attract the person we seek the most attention from, is internally making our dreams come true. SO when the time is right, the time is right.

“Payner you crumbled” - i did lol. A double text isn’t discouraged but before you send a text or snap or what not, ask yourself “is this decision going to contribute to my level of self-respect”. You know when you look good ladies and want a guy to see that, but transparently he already knows that. Let him find a way to see you in person. Be less accessible and keep getting hotter so when that in person moment comes….. it’s unforgettable. #futureslay. Time Time Time, and make decisions for your happiness, not seeking it from others. Or you’ll never be content. Lil Baby lyric below that resonates with this feeling. The take away: if it feels forced, let it flow. Nothing forced has ever been worth it. “Let time flow with you”.

The Other Women: Are women still sending texts to other girls to let them know to stay away from their man? Honestly, if there is a need to communicate to a women that you would like her to keep her distance from your man, I would recommend being brave and approaching her in person rather than text. Paper trail is paper trail. But on a respect level, for yourself, and your own relationship, there is nothing like the perfect moment when you see said girl, and you can express your statement in a firm but respectful way. Sending words like “you better watch out” or “if you talk to my man, you have it coming for you”. So understandable when there is girl form your partners past who is still relevant or in your radius, but to help you sleep at night and not fuel unnecessary drama, asking the girl to meet for coffee is more respectable and sets the tone. A silly petty text, is if anything opening up the door for problems (opposite of what you were trying to do).

Friendships: Be conscious about who you spend your time with. The vibe of your environment will rub off on you for worse or for better.

Old Stomping Grounds: walking by somewhere that had so many memories fills your cup and confidence so much. It also shows you how far you’ve come, and how far you’ve got to go. Old neighbourhoo’s, or somewhere you use to live or spent a chunk of time @. Go visit, stroll. Boots and hearts is so core, 5 day bender isn’t needed, but a 24 hour or day pass where you feel calm, cool, collective and most importantly clean, is great for filling your cup. #bootsnheartsalways

Environment & Education Section:

“Know Your Environment” - JW.

If your looking to stay on a health grind, know what your getting yourself into before you arrive. Ordering a chicken rice salad at a bar…. is a prime example of clearly not knowing your environment. A Caesar salad with chicken fingers might be the best thing you “settle” for that still hits your goals in some way and leaves you feeling somewhat satisfied. Amsterdam Brewary in Toronto by the water - order the fish n chips, don’t go for the Mexican corn rice salad. FME (from my experience) lol.

Take A Walk Down **Baldwin Street** in Toronto

France Feel Cafe on Bay Street = **Daily Ritual Cafe** has a nice patio for being right on King & Bay. The French music, and French coffee is very nice. The bagel is equivalent to a Starbucks bagel. Not fresh. The chocolate croissant is good. The cappuccino cuno is very delightful, and the French music c’est magnifique.’
Go Explore on **Baldwin Street** in Downtown Toronto. Check out Blue Butter Cafe, and go from there. A perfect date night (with lover or friends).

Butter & Blue Cafe

so cute. @https://www.instagram.com/scobelmoro/?hl=en

**Environment & Real Estate Development Observations:**

*“The Batch House”* 75 Victoria St, Toronto, ON M5C 2B1 for real estate development this would be a great small show house for upcoming plays and artists. Even something a local university or district school board could invest in. Contributing to the arts education, and creating opportunity for students and children to practice art, build their portfolios, and even create community on the east side of the downtown core. Some Friday nights, us young adults want to hangout with friends “outside”. Not always movie night, and not alway a big night out on the town. By creating and building places like these, it gives people the chance to see that there is other local things to do on a Friday evening. Like a $5 show to “les miserable” or “GREASE” play by local grade 9-12 students. Music, art, and people = 3 very healing things that contribute to community and love.

Jazz music is very lovely and healing. For the souls, and brings in that og restaurant free-feel vibe.

1. Ritz Carleton Downtown Toronto would fit the overall vibe. I adore the outdoor patio and the enchanted yet surreal private feel is kisses.

2. St Regis - downtown east of Bay Street, Toronto

Although, what really distincts a hotel is the service. I was recently informed that the reason St Barts compared to Harbour Island in the Bahamas has a one up is for the gold standard service, says SBH resident. One hotel id like to experience and write about would be the Park Hyatt in Yorkville. Specifically about the indoor and outdoor experience and feel at the Writers Room.

A sabatickle - how do we approach this with our employers and people in our current everyday lives ?

Why Is Toronto Culture so Rushed and “busy”.

I often wonder are we “So busy” or are we packing our schedules to draw us away from the inner reflection and work that needs to be done? Are we spending our time in the wrong places that make us feel so “busy” ?

Wellness key take away 🍋 : Less Alcohol Consumption & more Soda Water With Lemon🍋 . Bartenders are always happy to give you it to, when you ask politely.

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